Hey, I Love You
I know, I know, I have been inconsistent. Well, I've been listening to Wizkid, drinking water and, minding my business. Bliss!
I decided to come out today to tell my babies that I love them and to let them know how important they are to me.
Yes, today is the International Men's day, one of the only few days of the year when men are recognised and appreciated.
I have decided to use this opportunity to let them know how important they are and appreciate them, a little.
Don't get me wrong, FEAR MEN! Always do! Don't stop fearing men, but appreciate them still.
One of the hardest things for men to do, is being vulnerable. From experience, I've discovered that it's hard for men to take down the walls they've built around them and I always appreciate the ones around me that do. To the ones that don't; trust me, I understand.
Today, we're letting men know that it's okay to be vulnerable and feel emotions. Basically, bro it's okay to be human. Understandably, many men have placed themselves on a god pedestal and feel like they should act it, but you're only human; be it.
Personally, I tend to focus more and notice things that men around me do, rather than the women.
Why?
Women are more expressive, most times. Society has made it comfortable for women to air their mind, feel without restrictions and show emotions without being judged.
So, to all the men out there, I may not fully understand but trust me; I try to and, I want you to know that it's totally okay to be you and hopefully in the nearest future; society allows men to be humans.
Last but most importantly, to my dad, brothers, friends and every other male reading this; I love you and I appreciate you. Happy International Men's day.
This is the part where you share this post with any amazing male in your life